Tough questions singles ask about sex before marriage. Frankly speaking sexual intercourse is very sweet, wonderful and very beautiful for some one to enjoy. But you cannot start enjoying it without meeting the requirements or following due process or legitimacy or legality of it.
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Honey is sweet, but sexual intercourse is sweeter than it, but don’t allow it to destroy your life and future
Sexual drive or urge is unique and very powerful in its own nature, but you can control it and convert it into money making or acquiring of new knowledge that will help you in future and for life.
If you can control sexual urges you can control everything around you
You see sexual intercourse was not maint by God for everyone but only married couple. It’s not for youths nor children but only legitimate married man and woman.
1, Can Sex Before Marriage Destroy My Marriage In Future?
Yes! Because as you are having sexual intercourse with different people when you are single, so when you get married you will think that you have gotten license to woo more of your opposite sex. As a result your spouse may not satisfy you sexually as you want it because you have tasted many of them.
That act of having sexual intercourse here and there will automatically cause big problem in your marital life. So whenever your spouse discovered this, he or she will loose interest on you because you didn’t trust him wholeheartedly.
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2, Can Sex Before Marriage Shatter My Future?
Yes! Because as a teen, a virgin who do not know life nor understand it fully, having sexual intercourse when you are growing up to maturity will shatter your future.
The time you are suppose to read and study your books you utilised it in discussing and having sex with your opposite illegally.
And the time you will use to listen to your parents and help them at home you will make use of it thinking about sexual intercourse and wooing friends and luring them into sex, immorality. Which may provoke your parents to curse and reject you for life.
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3, Can Sex Before Marriage Make Me A Fool Tomorrow?
Yes! Life is turn by turn in everything, wait for your turn in marriage. Premarital sex can make you a very big fool for life, because when you have sexual intercourse and later become pregnant accidentally or contact diseases. Automatically your friends are going to look you and laugh at you as one of the big fools in their area, who do not know anything yet in life.
A person who refused to wait for his turn is the person that will run into trouble which he may not know how to come out of it
A person who heard about sex and jump into it without positive or good plans will soon jump out of it or jump into trouble. Those people you imitated will deny you access and excommunicated you from their midst.
Proverbs 6:25-26 cautioned you that Lust not after her beauty in your heart, neither let her take you with her eyelids.
Verse 26 For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.
4, Can Sexual Intercourse Before Marriage Destroy My Godly Life?
Yes! It can make you to become a sinner in the sight of God your Maker, because your body is the temple of God. According to the book of 1 Corinthians 3:16 which says that Know you not that you are the temple of God and that the spirit of God dwells in you?
And verse 17 added that If any man defile the temple of God him shall God destroy. For the temple of God is holy. Which temple are you?
Having sexual intercourse illegitimately will make the holy spirit into your body depart from you. As a result you become empty vessel, a child of God without power, your prayer life will go down and finally die away. And when the spirit of God departed from you, you begin to live dirty and fearful life. Just as what happened to King Saul as soon as spirit of God departed from him, evil spirit of God entered into him and started tormenting him and he became mad, according to 1 Samuel 16:14-15.
5, Is It A Command From God For Me To Desist From Sexual Intercourse?
Yes! It’s in the book of law of God, according to Exodus 20:14 which says that You shall not commit adultery, fornication. So whenever you have sex before marriage you have broken the law of God which may cause you disaster in life and future.
The best life which is enjoyable is life that pleases God the Creator of it
6, Can Sexual Intercourse Before Marriage Make My Relationship Strong?
No! Sexual Intercourse cannot make your relationship with others strong neither unite you more with your friends, rather it will make you become whore, street fellow on their faces.
If you do not reduce yourself to nothing no one can.
It will bring you regrets, pains and had I know in life. Regret after your illicit characters have scared those that would have married you away.
Always learn from the mistakes of others and build yourself and future
7, Can Sexual Intercourse Before Marriage Condemn My Life Entirely?
Yes! Because when you contacted an incurable diseases into your body, such as Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Aids, etc you have jeopardize your life and future or terminated your life while living.
If you can watch very carefully you will see many people that have destroyed their lives through three minutes sexual intercourse enjoyment. Reuben the son of Jacob who defiled his father’s bed and the father cursed him for life that he will not excel according to the book gen.49:1-4. As a result, Reuben’s were the offspring Korah, Dathan and Abiram who rose up against Moses and he prayed angry prayer that provoked God and He opened land and swallowed them alive and everything that appertained to them, according to the book of Numbers 16. So avoid illicit acts that cannot build your life and future. Reuben also his birthright to Judah his youger brother because of the same illegitimate sexual intercourse he had.
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8, If I Say No To Sex, Can I Associates With My Opposite Sex?
Yes! You can associates with your opposite sex very well. Saying no to illicit sex is not saying no to associating with your opposite sex at all. Neither excommunicating yourself from mingling with others. Birds 🐦 of the same feathers flocks together.
You see as you are mingling with others you must be prayerful and careful. Associate with people who will encourage you to study more, pray more or do more business. Not with chaffs every breeze carry about, but who will not encourage you or lead you to disvirgin your virginity. A young man wedded a virgin unknowingly to him so when he saw that at wedding night. He came to the church and gave it as testimony because it’s not easy to see such in his life.
9, Can Sexual Drive Put Me Into Trouble?
Yes! Always hold your sexual urges, do not allow the desire of it mar your life. Learn how to control yourself all the time, avoid whatever that will make your mind to go towards sexual intercourse always. Although your body is not wood but for the sake of your life in future make it to be wood. Ilegal sex intercourse can make you to suffer prison sentence or life jail, especially when you defile underage female . That can cause you the whole of your life you waste it in prison. I pray for you now, it will never be your portion in Jesus name Amen. And you will never waste your life in prison in Jesus name Amen.
Do not discuss it nor chat it with your friends neither practice what your biology teachers taught you in the classroom in the school 🏫. And do not think about it rather think for something else more valuable to you, or yieldable to your future and follow it.
He that is thinking for future greatness cannot make mistake on climbing it’s ladder.
However that sexual urges or drive have destroyed many and ruin their marriages, businesses and futures. Transfer that urge into knowledge or money acquisition.
10, Can You Tell Me The Proper Time Or Period For Sex?
Good! It’s when you have matured very well in life, in age and knows the need of sexual Intercourse , know the importance of having partner spouse with you and around you. The Bible says that God saw that Adam was alone. And He said that it is not good for him to live alone, think and do everything alone. As a result, He went further and created Eve for him in order to banish his loneliness.
So the actual time is when you discover that you are alone and doing things alone. Which will lead you into marriage, that is after your wedding or wedding night you will start enjoying sexual intercourse or activities with your partner. And from there you know the fruits sexual intercourse which is procreation of the world.
Convert Sexual Urge Into Money
All the brains you are racking for sex you can convert it into money making or something else that will help you and the society at large.
Such as:
The types of attires you do put on for sexual appeals
The steps you are taking in wooing ladies or men for sexy appeals
The knowledge you are composing to convince her or him to lure her into sexual intercourse.
The desire or impulse which do not allow you to sleep at night, your thinking and imaginations you are gathering in order to catch her for sexual intercourse.
You see, If You Can Control It And Convert it Into Your Business, You Will Become A Billionaire In Few Months. Or Into Education You Will Become The Most Wisest Person In The World.
