There are many mistakes married men and women make that destroyed their marriages unknowingly to them.
Thank you for reading this post, don’t forget to subscribe!Here are seven common mistakes married people make that destroyed their marriages. Although no one is perfect in life. I called it common because it’s something they over look, or something they called nothing and believed within themselves that is nothing. But unfortunately those things they underrated later become something that mar their beautiful relationships.
1, ALLOWED YOUR MAID TO COOK FOOD FOR YOU AND SERVE YOU.
This act has destroyed the marriage of Amaka. The Man later in the day found out that his wife don’t know how to cook food at all at home. The Man prefer to eat and enjoy the food cooked by his maid, if not he will not eat. And because of it the wife the maid, the man refused and insisted that the maid must come back to the house. Because he is one paying her. And the wife rejected to bring her back and the husband divorced her and married his maid because of the good foods she cooks at home.
2, ALLOWED FEMALE MAID TO SERVE THE MAN AND WASH HIS INNER WEARS.
This caused harvoc in the marriage of Onyedika. Their maid always the man daily and washes the man’s inner wears. One day when the wife is not there as usual at home. And she washed the man’s inner wears, took it to his room and brought out his pant opened and drew it wide and said, master don’t be annoyed put on this pant let me see whether it fits you or not, I bought new one for you. So from there the man tested the pant and tested the inner place of his maid. And from there he fell in love and discovered that the thing of his maid is sweeter than his own wife. And later his wife discovered, divorced him for he lacks self control and his unfaithfulness.
3, ALLOWED MALE GROWN UP SERVANT INTERRACTING DEEPLY WITH THE WIFE AT HOME.
This act marred Amara marriage. The servant has falling in love with her madam at home. Because they always gists together as equals about man and woman affairs. You know from drinking you will hear words. And their gistings have crossed to something else and the man in the house is not taking any notice of anything until she be came pregnant for the servant. When the husband saw his wife pregnancy he queried over it because he never touched her because of his medical condition. And he consulted their doctor discovered through DNL test his wife conceived through their servant at home. He filed for divorce in court.
4, ALLOWED MALE MAID TO SERVE AND WASH INNER WEARS OF THE MADAM IN THE HOUSE
This act jeopardize the marriage of Susan. The wife later in the day fall in love to her maid in the house because he washes her inner wears and serve her foods. The woman turned her maid to her sugar boy and herself to him sugar mom. The Man, husband cought them red handed in the midnight, when he came back in the house unexpectedly. The wife thought that he will not come back that night. And he saw them lying down naked on matrimonial bed. He sent her packing with the maid immediately.
5, ALLOWED DRIVER CHATTING DEEPLY IN THE VEHICLE ALWAYS WITH MADAM
This action damaged the marriage of Monica. The Man said, this attitude of my wife whether it is good eyes or bad he don’t know. She would be in the vehicle discussing for hours without minding him. His wife changed over night and began to disobey his order in the house. She is now prefer their Driver in the vehicle more than the owner of it. The husband took court litigation against the driver for snatching his wife. In the court his wife said that her husband is a mad man, she cannot marry such insane person as husband. This ended the marriage.
6, ALLOWED THE MAN TO BE PLAYING WITH THE MAID AT HOME.
The Man has formed the habits of playing all kinds of play at home with the maid when the madam is not there. One day his maid came to play with him without wearing inner wears but transparent gown. As they were playing she intentionally opened up her thing for the man to see her nakedness. The Man sighted it and said let us go inside and play the remaining ones. They went inside and played it on their executive bed. And from there the man got her pregnanted. It’s that period the wife discovered and quit the marriage and her maid took over the husband.
7, ALLOWED MALE MAID TO TAKE CARE OF FEMALE CHILDREN IN THE HOUSE
This act destroyed the family of Okeh, before they could knew it the maid had spoilt their children, fingering and sexual abuses. The Man and woman began to blame each other, whose fault? Who brought the maid? Whose relative? Oil that had poured away had poured away, there is no remedy of regathering it..
As a married man and woman before you do anything think twice and the future of your marriage. Always pray to God the Creator of marriage to take over and protect your family.
