You see, no sweet marriage without problem, as a result, problems in marriage are unavoidable or inevitable no matter how much you avoid it . No matter how much you love yourselves, or how rich you may be, or beautiful or handsome you are. It must be there, or come unknowingly to you. It’s compulsory not only in marriage but in all aspects of life. And in anything you are doing if problem is not there, then that thing worth not doing at all. Even God created problem in the lives of people of Israel. He said that he humbled them with hunger to enable them know that man shall not live by bread alone but with every word of him. And added that as a father chastised his children that is how God chastises his loved ones. And he encouraged them that in the day of temptation he will make way of excape for them. In order for them to know it’s not by their power or might but by the spirit of God.
Thank you for reading this post, don’t forget to subscribe!However problem is inevitable in MARRIAGE and without it you will not know each other better or very well, neither mature both in life and marriage, nor know how to control your self and temper or anger. A hot tempered man or woman always throw it away as soon as he or she gets married. If you can control your temper you can control another person around you.
Eliza ran away and living her children behind, because her husband is a womanizer.
The husband came back one midnight and met his children with their maid. And he asked about his wife. The maid answered that, as soon as you left house in the morning to work. She packed her things angrily and left and said to me take care of children. And also told me to tell you that she has gone to her father’s house.
The husband didn’t look for her nor care for her where about. Rather married the maid that has already mastered the children. So after fifteen years Eliza came back to the house and said that the maid had given birth of four children from the husband. The Man came back and saw Eliza and he said to her that the problem you couldn’t solve nor endure your maid had endured all and took over your place in the house.
The children didn’t recognize Eliza again that angered her most, she beat her chest and said even my children don’t know me again. Because they had grown and one of them asked their mother, how Dare you you abandoned us and ran away. The children said, we don’t know you again our mother is Ngozi
She mishandled the problem the problem she thought that the best solution to it is to ran away temporary and come back again without knowing that she is making heavy mistake she can’t correct in future. She thought that the husband will look for her and wait for her but the Man didn’t look for her neither wait for her but went ahead and remarried to his maid in the house.
In the Bible Sarah did not ran away because of Haggai, neither Leah because Rachel in all the problems, they were there with their husbands battling it, nor Hannah because of Penina.
And some problems were created by God the Creator of marriage, husband, wife and child. Eg. God withheld Rachel from giving birth, shut the womb of Hannah, made Elizabeth was barren. And Sarah conceived at her old age, Jesus’apostle asked him when they saw a person born blind whose sin. He answered them that God made it in order to manifest His power. And lame man Peter healed at beautiful gate. And the poor righteous prophet the debtor came to collect his sons, prophet Elijah multipled her oil and paid the debts.
Although, you can see millions of people around the world enjoying their marriages, because they handled their problems very well, and learned big lessons out of it which made them became Masters of their spouses.
