Your appearance speaks to your opposite sex before you. In life eyes eat first before any other part of the body, if your eyes camera somethings and like it then your mind goes for it. Mike Murdock said, Pay any price to stay in the presence of extra ordinary people.
Thank you for reading this post, don’t forget to subscribe!Apostle Paul said, For if a man think himself to be something when he is nothing he deceives himself.
How do you appear on the presence of your opposite sex?
Is it as a good or a person with questionable character?
Is it so beautiful or casual always or at times on the presence of your opposite sex?
Whenever you are with your opposite sex, what do you think or what do you bear in mind?
Do you always behave yourself whenever you are with a person you valued so high in your life?
When you are with her or him, what is it that rings in your mind marriage or friendship?
Do your opposite sex love you because of your behaviors or attitudes you exhibit towards them?
What do you think your opposite sex have in mind whenever any of them see you?
How many them do tell you, I love you, I love your style of life in a week or month?
How do you appear in the church or in occasion or in any social gathering?
Do your opposite sex love to go out with you because of your appearance?
How do you admire your pictures in your album and the ones on the walls in your room?
When you see yourself on the mirror what do you say or tell yourself?
Do your opposite sex love to go to their house with you when their parents and siblings are there?
Do you admire your opposite sex often or at times?
How do you show them that you really love them right from your heart?
Can you really tell me what is special in you that attract people to you, if not for marriage but in business and outing ?
Benedict, told his brother that his former girl friend he was desiring to marry, that what marred her beauty is that K-Legs she had. And if she didn’t put on trousers he won’t have quickly noticed it.
The brother said K-legs is nothing if he loves the girl because it is part of her natural life which was not her make up.
Benedict, said, no-no I don’t want to marry a woman people will be describing me as the husband of that woman that has K-legs. Just like a woman who gave birth of deaf and dumb child said, what ashaming her is not that she gave birth of such disabled child, but what is making her ashamed of the child is because people are now calling her, mother of a deaf and dumb child. That to answer a such mother of deaf and dumb child is really disturbing her mind always. Instead of calling her by the name of the child, they are describing her with the problem. So I do not want anyone to describe me with the problem of my wife as her name.
In this world, eyes see first and eat before every other part of the body. Your appearance makes way for you quickly more than anything else, or imagine in the marital life. So your physical appearance tells people around you who you are and equally portrays picture of how your inwards being looks like.
However if you can approach those people who married before you and ask them, the mood or attire or attitudes or speeches in which they were their spouses met them. They will tell you a lot of stories which motivated them into marriage. Such like their character, appearance, manner of approach, kindness,or even his charity to one another, etc.
No body or someone who is coming to you can say that nothing attracted him or her to you, but for sure one character or the other which in you have attracted him or her to you. For instance, our mother said that the first time our elder brother invited his wife to be in the house. That the lady laugh and laugh even every body in the house joined her laughing without knowing exactly what caused it . She finalized that her laugh that day motivated her to tell our brother to marry her because laugh is very important to everyone’s life. She further said that anyone who refused to laugh when everybody is laughing for joke cracked , that fellow must have a very serious problem facing him that very moment which requires urgent attention before the person waste his life or commit suicide and die. You see it’s not easy to find fault on a person that laugh always.
That’s why you should set up your own strategy of attraction anywhere you are, anywhere you go and anywhere you belong or found yourself.
